17 January 2011

LIFE BY minor ASSUMPTIONS!



Its been a while guys. I've been too lazy to post and theres too much of been happening too.but well all this while I had been writing.So i got a whole lot to say,narrate, get poetical etc.u get the gist.I kinda feel guilty not to post. It feels like an injustice done to me and you.Anyways this next one is a perspective of a person who let me in completely.i turned his heart into words and well here it is.:)


One day i come across a person who in fact now is a friend of mine. He/She lives her life normally like every other person though with the exception of some minor setbacks and unique talents.He/she had this habit, i'm sorry has this habit of assuming atrociously.Though it is really frustrating, I've learned to adjust to him/her.But what is annoying that even though i accepted his/her faults, he/she refused to do the same with me.Because of his/her assumptions, he/she thinks that i don't understand him/her and take all my frustration out on him/her. Maybe because of this, we both keep on having fights occasionally.But when we do have fights, it seems to go on forever.I try to make him/her realize that i'm not perfect, yet somewhere he/she expects me to be so,thinks it to be so,moreover assumes it to be so.


I try, I try my best. I'm always there for him/her but maybe somewhere I must be slacking.Maybe theres a place i haven't reached out to yet.It feels feels like an unfulfilled wish or maybe an unnerving sensation.
You feel like you want to end this.Guys think about it.How many times have you been frustrated with people who have got on your nerves?
Somewhere in that heart of yours you assume too.It's because of these tiny assumptions which then turn into misunderstandings that sometimes are disastrous.I've learnt my own lesson.I taught myself how to be the kind of guy who knows how to accept another person's fault accepting my own first.


So i'd just like to say to you that always give second chances to people no matter how many times they are.Just try and forgive and that makes all the difference:)
--hex

4 comments:

  1. A lot of people have got onto my nerves...yes, I was frustrated but, I did forgive them.
    My question is, How many times can you ever forgive a person??
    I agree about giving a second chance but, what if that person repeats the same mistake and apologises and expects to be forgiven....?

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  2. its a nice thing to forgive.but its harder not to get annoyed.you just have to accept how they are nandika.
    your question.i might say is an intriguing one.but i always have an answer.lets take for example a random person who betrays his friends okay?now his friends forgive him but it takes time for that trust to come back to you.unless the person is really sorry about his deeds then theres no chance he would repeat the same mistake.he would be like a persistent insect otherwise.i agree that person expects to be forgiven but look at the situation from his point of view as well.im not saying that people should always be foriven.when a person does wrong.he does wrong.but it takes time to heal such things and the only one who can make it right is him not you.he has to make an effort for you to be the same.if not.hes not actually sorry.but he will actually regret years later saying "i wish i had really meant it"...

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  3. @hexile, well said..."the only one who can make it right is him not you"... :)

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